Welcome Leah, I'm big into exercising and weight training as well and
it's great to have you join the group. Congratulations on your
weightloss! Keep up the great work!
Carrie
Lap RNY April 9, 2004 (-79 lbs.)
348/269/140 (begin/current/goal)
www.carrieburns.net
Wow...what a day! Glad you survived it...and glad I didn't have to
have one. The leak test is scaring me enough...and turning my ol'
stomach too! I have been in touch with a few people local who have
used my surgeon to get the facts before hand. So I am informed and
still waiting for any information suddenly remember.
Something you said about the gurney being small for our weight hit
home cause I was approached once about that same thing a few years
ago when I was at my highest...300! It was also for stitches in my
foot after stepping on a huge piece of glass. Oh what a nightmare!
I was asked how I was prepared to get around since I'd more than
likely break the crutches. Wheelchairs weren't big enough to
accomodate me etc...! Luckly I was off the week, used our office
chair at home to roll around on and slept in a recliner since my bed
was a waterbed and hard to get in and out normally...LOL! Glad
those day's are behind me...almost for good! Thanks for letting me
ramble...LOL!!!
Hugs, Linda
hehehe silly Linda
Linda Lou <iamllu@...
ya got me weepy too!!!
Thanks!!!
Hugs back! Linda in AL.
Cortney,
Those bars sound really good, especially with all the protein but what about
calories? I know some of the bars have just way too many calories for the size
of them. How many calories are in the bars you've got?
Thanks!
Bridget
Cortney <joncort2@...
I just read the e-mail about the pain in the sternum area when you
eat or drink AND all of the responses. I am having similar issues,
sometimes, but then other times it is okay. I have two things, a
question and then a new protein packed discovery. First, question.
When does your appetite return after a three week hiatus? I am
literally force feeding myself. This a.m. I had two bites of
scrambled eggs and it was as if I could not possibly eat anymore so
I didn't. I need protein, but I am hating yogurt after the
whole "soft foods" tour in the beginning. Today I discovered some
new snack bars called "Q-Smart" (by Quaker Oatmeal) in the grocery
store. The come in peanut butter and chocolate or cranberry nut
(?). At any rate, you would assume loaded with sugar? NO! Only 1
gram and a whopping 11 grams of protein per one one ounce bar! I am
eating one right now (Peanut butter chocolate) and they taste okay,
not great, but worth the 11 packed protein grams for a snack with
low sugar to boot. Check them out!
Cortney
258/220/142 07/14/04
Hi,
I'm new to this group and I thought I'd introduce myself. I had the
surgery done 1/26/04, so today's my seven month anniversary. I
started at 321, I'm at 231 right now, and am aiming to lose around 2-
3 pounds per week and get to around 20% body fat. I had to get the
surgery done for two reasons: 1) because I have a bad hip which
prevented me from exercising beforehand, and I need to get a hip
replacement (I'm young, 29) but they wanted me down to a lower weight
to do this, and 2) because my insulin problems prevented me from
losing weight normally. I'm about 40 pounds within goal weight for
my surgery.
Now that I'm at a lower weight, exercising is much easier. I'm also
taking Celebrex to help me with the pain. Since the surgery I've
also been seriously body building, so that the muscle tissue can
increase my metabolism and weight loss rate. I do have a fair bit of
muscle mass, though, which is keeping my weight up. I'm thinking
that when I get down to my target body fat percentage, I'll start
competing in the natural body building world.
I'm a biochemist, so I know a lot about metabolism, diet and kcal
intake, so hopefully I can help out a lot in this forum!
thank you Dora for reminding us!
Dora McCary <dora.mccary@...
Alaska's surgery in San Diego. I just thought I would remind everyone so that
we can be praying for her today.
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
I just read the e-mail about the pain in the sternum area when you
eat or drink AND all of the responses. I am having similar issues,
sometimes, but then other times it is okay. I have two things, a
question and then a new protein packed discovery. First, question.
When does your appetite return after a three week hiatus? I am
literally force feeding myself. This a.m. I had two bites of
scrambled eggs and it was as if I could not possibly eat anymore so
I didn't. I need protein, but I am hating yogurt after the
whole "soft foods" tour in the beginning. Today I discovered some
new snack bars called "Q-Smart" (by Quaker Oatmeal) in the grocery
store. The come in peanut butter and chocolate or cranberry nut
(?). At any rate, you would assume loaded with sugar? NO! Only 1
gram and a whopping 11 grams of protein per one one ounce bar! I am
eating one right now (Peanut butter chocolate) and they taste okay,
not great, but worth the 11 packed protein grams for a snack with
low sugar to boot. Check them out!
Cortney
258/220/142 07/14/04
big hugs to you Linda!
Linda Lou <iamllu@...
Yes the day's are ticking by for me and I have to admit I am trying
to stay busy...but its hard not to think too! LOL!!! Thanks for
thinking of me on my day of "rebirth" and I will surely sit my butt
down here and post after I get home.
Hugs, Linda in AL.
i had my upperGI i was instructed to not eat or drink anything after
12 midnight i was happy to oblige naturally. Seeing this has set me
on my path to being a pre-op like some of you.I was so excited once
i finally found the right spot where i was suppose to be in. Amazing
how so many people can work in one hospital and still not know where
one office is(laughing). I pre-registered by phone like a good big
little girl and that put me in line first(smiles). So they take me
to another room you know the hurry and wait game fornately i was not
sitting there long. Til a lady came in and called my name i was like
wow that was fast. She was like i have some questions for you i was
like ok n/p she was like i didn't wanna embarrasse you but how much
do you weigh ma'am mind you she was small and this really has no
barring on the conversation at all but i thru it in there anyways.
(giggling)I said well i am 300lbs she said ok because we have a
weight requirement for this tables here i am sorry i was like don't
be sorry which it isn't her fault really. She was like sit here i
will be right back and all these things came into my mind like you
know this is the story of my life just another blow to the belly for
being a big person.Well she came back to me and she said ma'am we
are going to do this in the ER for you because this is what we do
with some of the patients that have this procedure done i was like
thank gawd because i really don't want to stall my process. She said
ma'am it will all be taken care of you will be fine and it will all
work out. I decided i may 1 day wright a book about the life of a
morbid obese womens life. But the kicker is here i haven't been
morbid obese my entire life only after child birthing did i become a
big women and trying to diet many times i became a yo-yo dieter .
However i do think it was inevitable for me not to become overweight
as my entire family is over weight since they became adults. As a
young child i was skinny and a teenager and up until i was 21.But
today made me realize alot of things that i am ever so glad i made
this decision because i am so tired of going through things like
this in my life having to have special accmodations because of being
a morbit obese person but i am still a person big or small and a
good person and a kind loving and giving and that will never change
no matter what.
In care always,
Denise in NJ.
Hey Denise,
Yes the day's are ticking by for me and I have to admit I am trying
to stay busy...but its hard not to think too! LOL!!! Thanks for
thinking of me on my day of "rebirth" and I will surely sit my butt
down here and post after I get home.
Hugs, Linda in AL.
Today is Alice from Alaska's surgery in San Diego. I just thought I would
remind everyone so that we can be praying for her today.
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
Wow! I'm glad you went to the E.R. and you are home resting. Take it easy!
Don't overdo it!
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
Hi Vicki,
This is a great group of people. Full of such wonderful advice
before your attempt and afterwards. My surgery is scheduled for
Sept. 7th and I know these wonderful "friends/family" will see me
through it and any questions that arise afterwards. It helps that
you have family who has traveled this road already! Good luck and
keep us posted on your progress.
Welcome!!
Hugs, Linda in AL.
A big "WELL DONE" to you for the 150 lbs that are gone.
JJ
Hi Amy,
Like you've heard before this is a great group of people. Full of
such wonderful advice before your attempt and afterwards. My
surgery is scheduled for Sept. 7th and I know these
wonderful "friends/family" will see me through it and any questions
that arise afterwards.
Welcome!!
Hugs, Linda in AL.
Hey Deitra,
Doing pretty good except for the nerves...LOL! I just pray its over
and soon. Seems like the day's are going in reverse instead of
going ahead. The day is Sept. 7th! Have you going on
www.obesityhelp.com yet? Its great cause you can just go into an
area where just those from AL are. January will be here before you
know it and just think...you get to enjoy Thanksgiving and Christmas
just for me...LOL! Everyone is doing pretty good except for my dear
Don cause he wont be able to be with me day of surgery due to his
employer. But he'll be there afterwards. Email me anytime cause I
got to my box first each morning. And remember I try to be
invisible too...LOL!
Hugs, Linda
Vicki, Hello and welcome to the group. Cindy in MI 11/24/03 316/202/145
mydadsbuddy <4cupz@...
and wanted to say hello~
My consultation is on September 10th and I am really excited!
My aunt had the surgery about 10 months ago and has lost 170 lbs and
my cousin had it 4 months ago and has lost 57 so I said why not me.
My number one reason for having it done is that i am unable to
exercise at this weight (250). I had spinal fusion 2 yrs ago and I
have had no pain/problems since but its hard to excercise because i
have drop foot, it makes walking for more than 20-30 min difficult.
My blood pressure in the last 3 months has went up to 160/120 and my
colesteral was 290-so since i gained 30lbs this year after trying all
the fad diets, why not? I hope this didnt bore everyone but figured
it would be good to share- I live on Long Island and am 35-
the name?? my dad died 3 yrs ago and well he called me his buddy~
hope all are doing well and Thanks for a site where we have things
in common!
~vicki
Hi, my name is Vicki, I am new to the group and wanted to say hello~
My consultation is on September 10th and I am really excited!
My aunt had the surgery about 10 months ago and has lost 170 lbs and
my cousin had it 4 months ago and has lost 57 so I said why not me.
My number one reason for having it done is that i am unable to
exercise at this weight (250). I had spinal fusion 2 yrs ago and I
have had no pain/problems since but its hard to excercise because i
have drop foot, it makes walking for more than 20-30 min difficult.
My blood pressure in the last 3 months has went up to 160/120 and my
colesteral was 290-so since i gained 30lbs this year after trying all
the fad diets, why not? I hope this didnt bore everyone but figured
it would be good to share- I live on Long Island and am 35-
the name?? my dad died 3 yrs ago and well he called me his buddy~
hope all are doing well and Thanks for a site where we have things
in common!
~vicki
to everyone I am going no mail for about a month or so keep up the good work see
or chat with you soon...much love to you all.this will start tomorrow. sorry if
some of you get it two or even three times.......
Stacy Beck
Surgery Date :.MARCH,10,04
427.6/as of August,16,04 I weighted in at 277.6,
so that is 150.0 lbs gone for good
/ some day 195
My name is Jaron. I had Lap RNY on 8.9.04 and I'm already down 35
lbs. I've gotten myself into trouble in previous groups do to
talking about adult topics such as how losing weight has affected our
sex lives and such. It was informative, not vulger. Nonetheless,
some people didn't appreciate the topics of conversation. So I
created my own group for Adult topics in the gastric bypass community.
The group deals with sexual and relationship issues that arise during
the gastric bypass process. This group is available for people who
have had the surgery as well as those considering it. Those who have
had or are considering other forms of weight loss surgery as welcome
as well.
Hello Everyone
My name is Amy and I live in Sacramento California. I am waiting to
schedule my day for surgery. I am hoping for January, they say as
long as I lose the 10% I should be fine. I am down 7 lbs already.
I am hoping you all will give me insight into what I have to look
forward to. Hope to chat with you all soon.
Thanks
Amy
Hello Amy,
I do not post much here but , it is a great group to
get advice and encouragment. I am waiting for
authourzation from the military insurance, So far i am
scheduled for Oct 6th,
My name is Patty I currently live in Conneticut, but i
am from Calif, i have lived in Redlands, San Deigo,
Vallejo, San Deigo then Concord before i moved here,
been her for almost 6 years,
HI ALL,
MY NAME IS CHRISTOPHER CARROLL, I WOULD LOVE TO COME TO THE MEETING IF ME
AND MY WIFE CAN, IF SOMEONE CAN GET ME THE ADDRESS OF CHILIS, IS IT THE ONLY
ONE IN ALTAMONTE SPRINGS OR JUST GET ME THE RIGHT ADDRESS SO I CAN LOOK IT
UP ON MAPQUEST.COM
IM HOPING THAT ME AND MY WIFE HAVE NOTHING ELES TO DO ON SUNDAY WOULD LOVE
TO MEET YOU ALL, IM SOUTH OR THAT WAY IM ON THE EAST COAST ON US HIGHWAY 1
NEAR THE WATER IN A SMALL TOWN CALLED MICCO. SO IF ANYONE COULD DO THAT I WOULD
APPERCIATE IT.
THANKS
CHRISTOPHER CARROLL
7400 US HIGHWAY 1 LOT#7
MICCO FLORIDA 32976
1-772-664-3598
SURGERY MAY 9TH 2000 WAS OVER 800 IM NOW DOWN TO ABOUT 300
CHRISTOPHER CARROLL
I guess it's just meant for me to look like a total donkey butt about the
Orlando get together on Sunday. I have just found out that the place we chose is
closed on Sundays. I can't catch a break. LOL
So, let's try Chili's at 2:00pm on 436 in Altamonte Springs. It's close to
Altamonte Mall. Traveling west on I-4 take the Altamonte Springs exit and make a
left onto 436. Traveling east make a right. Sorry about the confusion.
Sincerely,
Dawn in Orlando
Pre-op
Surgery 10/23/04
Linda,
I was thinking about you today girl ,,,,,how much longer do you have til your
surgery date ?
I will be so glad when January rolls around,,,,,,I want to be on the loosing
side too...lol
anywayz,,I just wanted to say hi and see how you and your family have been
.........Take care and maybe we can catch up with one another before long !!
TTYL,
Deitra
OK, I'm not the brightest person sometimes so please excuse me. The get
together in Orlando this weekend is on Sunday, not Saturday like I posted
yesterday. All the other info is the same, we will meet at Ol Boys BBQ at 2:00pm
which
is located on the corner of W. Colonial (SR 50) and Edgewater Dr. Sorry about
the mix up. See you this weekend.
Sincerely,
Dawn in Orlando
Pre-op
Surgery 10/23/04
But when i find something i think is good and helpful and awesome i
like to share
it.http://www.clevelandclinic.org/florida/depts/wib/testimonials/gast
ricbypass6.html this is an awesome site!
In care always,
Denise in NJ.
for some reason this did come up right
http://www.clevelandclinic.org/florida/depts/wib/testimonials/gastricbypass6.htm\
l so i am redoing it again!
deniseann311 <bbwstrumpette@...
But when i find something i think is good and helpful and awesome i
like to share
it.http://www.clevelandclinic.org/florida/depts/wib/testimonials/gast
ricbypass6.html this is an awesome site!
In care always,
Denise in NJ.
hehehe boys will be boys
Kathy <findingkathy@...
lol i am tramatized by my own backyard now no more weed pulling for me.
Pat <patcole@...
did a lot a
research on them, that's how I knew about the poison ivy, too bad
after I returned my goats my town passed regulations regarding
livestock, I guess they would rather have you use chemicals.
Remember burning poison ivy releases oily toxin. My neighbors
drank a bit and thought I had deer in my back yard, we laughted so
hard. And my good for nothing dog found out she liked to herd the
goats. Brings back memories.
Take care
Pat in RI
Here is the website of the surgeon that will be doing my procedure. It is
pretty interesting & explains a lot about the entire process, etc.
http://newimageweightloss.com/index.html
Hope it helps!
Sue in NY
deniseann311 <bbwstrumpette@...
http://www.rnygastricbypass.com/
In care always,
Denise.
http://www.rnygastricbypass.com/
In care always,
Denise.
Diane, I'm so sorry to hear you have been through so much. I can't even
imagine what the cause could be. Best of luck and glad you got yourself
in and taken care of, maybe the doctor will be able to determine what
the cause was. I haven't known anyone who's gone through this sort of
thing so I'm not much help there.
Carrie
Lap RNY April 9, 2004
348/273/140 (begin/current/goal)
www.carrieburns.net
hehehe Kathy i am rolling way to go Rich pooh and eeyore Rock!
Denise.
Kathy <findingkathy@...
Whow, are you ok now???
JJ
Well ladies I ended up checking myself into the ER since by 8am I knew this was
not normal bleeding and few hrs later found out I had a tear at my vagina. ANd
of course they asked if I had inter course and if we used any foreign objects I
was like OMG no it was about as normal as it could have been and just so
happenes I did have like 2 days earlier had inter course. But I just do not see
how it was from that and I worked 2 full days feeling fine and no warning signs.
I just woke up soaked in blood and kept passing blood clots. I had to stay in
hospital all day got home at 8pm nothing to eat or drink all day. I lost alot of
blood and still feel weak dr said I could go back to work when ever I decided to
take the week off and rest I lost like over 1 1/2 pints of blood. I just read
where diet & stress can be the cause and I have to wonder if thats not the
cause. I also read where a vitamin C deficeny could be to blame. Has anyone else
been through this?????????? Sorry so long I was
just not expecting to have any more surgeries and wham this one was a shocker
honestly, my doctor was not concerned about calories. only concerned with
protein intake. as long as i was and am getting enough protein, the calories
will follow also.
julia in delaware
lap rny 3/10/04
261/171/120
i know when i was 2 months post-op i was still very worn out. the things i
would always do, would tire me out very quickly. i think you are pushing a
little too hard. maybe you should try 3 days a week to start out. your body
has gone through a lot in the past 2 months. you can't expect it to be normal
and do what you want it to when you want it to. i know you are excited about
working out and your weight loss and you want to do whatever you can, but don't
overdo it. cut back to maybe 3 days a week and if that's not good enough try 2
days for a little while. you could always alternate too, 3 days at curves and
2-3 days at the track. it's basically trial and error until you feel okay. i
started out 2 days a week and worked up to at least 5 now, sometimes 6 days a
week. i weight train with my husband and jog 2 miles on the treadmill every day
now. but i'm still a little tuckered out at the end of the week, between the
exercising, work, daily life, etc.
let us know how it's going.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
Denise,
I am pre-op also & busy trying to get things together. I was told I should get
a baby spoon to use as it will be easier for me- slows down your eating. So, I
went on ebay & got a Betty Boop baby feeding set! I have also order protein
samples & staring stocking up on jello. Whoopie!! =0)
But it will be all worth it in the long run!
Sue in NY
brooke sheilds <bbwstrumpette@...
Oh Laurette you are a god send hugss doll baby...
Denise in NJ
Babydollbbw3@... wrote:
Denise,
I used the fruit juice bars and they were a godsend during the liquids
portion of my recovery. I still eat a lot of SF popsicles, creamsicles and ice
creams (now and then). I save the ice cream bars for a treat. I stocked up on
SF
jello and puddings, oh and chicken broth or creamed soups.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
Amy how about go every other day instead of everyday?
Amy <sunflower02742003@...
went everyday, but i noticed
that i am worn out and dont feel like going to the track afterward..
So i was just wondering about how maybe some of you do it.. Do you
work out certain # of days a week, and walk a certain # of weeks, or
do you do both??? what do you reccommend?
amy Dallas lap 6-23-04
312/274 as of 8-24-04
i started curves last week, and i have went everyday, but i noticed
that i am worn out and dont feel like going to the track afterward..
So i was just wondering about how maybe some of you do it.. Do you
work out certain # of days a week, and walk a certain # of weeks, or
do you do both??? what do you reccommend?
amy Dallas lap 6-23-04
312/274 as of 8-24-04
hello group does anyone know how many. cals. I should be taking in
at three weeks post-op. I think I might be getting about 250 if i am
lucky. any suggestions I am on a full liquid diet and the only thing
i have been eating is
about 4oz cottage cheese a day
about 4tbs of carb free french dressing in the cottage cheese.
half a can of carb free slim fast.
and a liter of water everyday
and my two vitimens
http://www.gastricbypassfamily.com/Hibernation.html i found this site today has
anyone heard of it before?...Denise in southern NJ
deniseann311 <bbwstrumpette@...
actually.When should i start stocking up on
things to have for after my surgery ? I don't have a date yet but i
have begun my pre-op processes. Also i was wondering does anyone use
the fruit juice bars and the yogart low fat shakes?
Denise in southern NJ
Ok a couple of questions actually.When should i start stocking up on
things to have for after my surgery ? I don't have a date yet but i
have begun my pre-op processes. Also i was wondering does anyone use
the fruit juice bars and the yogart low fat shakes?
Denise in southern NJ
I'll be close to both of you.. My surgery is the morning of Sept
21st.. :)
-Alana-
hey we all make mistakes but how was you to know..i would have been nice to
have him if he had not come back so strong ,,,
take care
shirley of fontana so cal
Linda Lou <iamllu@...
Hi Shirley,
I made the mistake of welcoming him back when I read his V8 cocktail
recipe then regretted it later on after reading his attacks.
Honestly I think he's worse than I remember. Seems to have come back
with inflated balls and a chip on his shoulder...LOL!!! Of course I
was still new back then and may not have seen his ravage against the
group.
Linda in AL.
Thank you, now maybe I won't need the drinks and shakes????????
JJ
Hi Shirley,
I made the mistake of welcoming him back when I read his V8 cocktail
recipe then regretted it later on after reading his attacks.
Honestly I think he's worse than I remember. Seems to have come back
with inflated balls and a chip on his shoulder...LOL!!! Of course I
was still new back then and may not have seen his ravage against the
group.
Linda in AL.
we did the same thing we had to eat your wedding cake top at the ronald mcdonald
house because your first son was in the nicu. we have been married going on
5yrs this sept. we even lost our first son at that hospital when he was 7.5
months old. and a year and half later gave birth to healthy twin boy's
Dora McCary <dora.mccary@...
Laurette,
My surgery is exactly 2 weeks before our 1 year wedding anniversary. So
needless to say we are going out before hand and are going to eat the top layer
of our cake on that night. I don't know if it is just a southern tradition or
not, but we froze the top layer of our cake to be eaten on our 1 year ann for
good luck.
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
The spray is put out by Ces Sheveux and it is called
Biotin Formula, Hair and scalp revitalizer. It helps
to prevent the breakage of hair. I'm not sure of the
price but nothing that she sales in her shop is
usually over 15.00. Hope this helps.
Kristy
Laurette,
My surgery is exactly 2 weeks before our 1 year wedding anniversary. So
needless to say we are going out before hand and are going to eat the top layer
of our cake on that night. I don't know if it is just a southern tradition or
not, but we froze the top layer of our cake to be eaten on our 1 year ann for
good luck.
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
Yeah, fat!!!!!!!!
I have to get myself a denture. All this chewing is wearing me down.
JJ
JJ,
I was told peanuts are a good food too, high protein. Of course we have to
eat them in moderation...lol.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
My first period after the surgery was late by about three weeks,
very, very heavy - not normal for me at all. (My surgery was four
months ago) but since they've been right on schedule, lighter and
actually shorter in duration - but I think that also has to do with
the fact that I'm healthier and eater better.
Just my two cents.
Patricia
Hey, I have had the surgery 4 months ago, and I wished my nutricionist had
talked to my dietician because she was wrong in many things. For example:
She told us not to eat peanuts, but my Dr said that peanuts are a good snack
....
JJ
After getting the gastric bypass surgery will it effect your
menstrual cycle and how many periods u have?
Alana
I don't have a surgery date yet i'm seeing the dietician for the 3rd
time on friday and the phsyc eval next week they say i should be able to
have the surgery by febiary. I'm getting my surgery at Hershey Medical center
Love Debbie
I completely agree!
Hey Pat,
We had wanted Goats...to rent!!!;-) So we could clear out our 4
acres. We could fence them in and move them around till its all
cleaned up. But our area doesn't allow livestock! BOO!!!
Hugs, Linda
Judith,
You take Wellbutrin because your husband says so? Is that the best way to take
care of yourself?
I been married 30 yrs to the same man and I am DEFINITELY not the same woman he
married, nor is he the same man I married. We all change and grow together and
that is NORMAL. We don't have to take a pill for that and nothing EVER remains
the same.
Just my two cents Hon! Please do whatever you need to do for yourself and your
husband will reap the rewards of a healthy, happy wife. But don't think that
you have no choice in medicating yourself. It's a free world. We all have
choices.
Jolynn in NY
Here is the info for the Orlando get together on Saturday. We will be meeting
at Ol" Boys BBQ on the corner of W Colonial (SR 50) and Edgewater Dr. If you
are taking I-4 you need to take the W. Colonial exit. We will be meeting at
2:00pm. My cell number is 321-276-0926. If you have never met me or Omar just
ask for us when you come in.
Just a reminder, we welcome any pre or post op, it doesn't matter who your
surgeon is and you are welcome to bring a guest. Just email me and let me know
if you will be attending so I can have an idea of how many people to set up
for.
We are in the process of trying to find a more permanent place to meet every
month so we can get away from going to restaurants. If anyone has any
suggestions please feel free to post them.
Look forward to seeing you on Saturday.
Sincerely,
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I had lap RNY on 8/05/2004
I had no drain !!! I have cuts with staples all in them the 1 st day
post op. My surgery was on A thurs. AND, I had my staples out on
theat monday. I can come and show ya!!!!!:). Alot of docs don't use
drains. There are many "facts" involved when thay decide to drain or
not to drain! Thats not a question!!!! Please do not belittle the
posters hear. Unless you have performed this surgery your self it
hardly qualifys you give the "facts ot theory for that matter.
Please have a respectfull tone we all want one thing, to be healthy
happy and share our journey after Wls.That being said I am not
saying do not express opinions I am stating that we need to simply
compare notes and observations. NICELY!!!!!!! Thanks for the imput
and thaks for letting me have mine! All the best KIMW
Hi Teresa,
I'm in the same boat you are. My insurance requires 6
months of monitored weight loss and a psych eval. for
approval. My PCP wants the sleep study and stress
test. My stress test is next Monday the 30th, my
sleep study is Sept. 9th. Sept. is my 4th month of
monitored weight loss. My husband and I go to a
support group meeting this saturday that is run by the
surgeon's staff and my first consultation with the
surgeon is Oct. 25th. They said I should be scheduled
for my surgery in January - 5 months away but I know
it will go quickly. Just not quickly enough. I hope
everything goes quickly for you. If everything goes
as scheduled we should both have our surgery close to
the same time.
Gloria
Dora,
You like Isopure? What flavor is that?
Rich tried the mango something-er-other and the apple one. He
couldn't stand them. He tried the punch and the grape and said they
were just okay.
Kathy
Alana,
Great! We'll plan when it's a little closer. I marked your date on my
calendar so I wouldn't forget. I know people who have had Open and they have
done
fine also. You are going to do great! It's sometimes more about mindset than
anything. Go in with a positive attitude! That's one of my biggest
suggestions. I am doing great! I'm feeling wonderful - mentally and
physically. I'm
still me on the inside, the me that should have always been on display...not
the one that felt like she had to hide who I really am. My attitude never
matched what I looked like. I think the psychological aspect of this surgery is
almost as important as the physical. I actually think that programs/surgeons,
etc. should do a little more on the psychological end of this surgery. Any
way, sorry I got off on a tangent there. I'm very happy and I would do this 10
times over if I needed to.
Can't wait to see you soon!
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
Yes, Bridget. Highlights actually add depth to hair and makes it look
fuller. I just could not bear to get a short hair cut. My hair is curly and it
is
past my shoulders. It is pretty low maintenance also. If I did short hair
I'd want one of those cute, flippy, trendy do's and I just don't have the time
to deal with that right now. But, ya never know, maybe some day I'll go
shorter.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
Amen Kristy.
I am not getting a good vibe from the e-mails today.
I know I am nervous enough about what my future holds
as far as this surgery goes. Some people come here
for support not a lashing.
Kristy
Hey Judith,
I wish you well...seriously! Sounds like you have a lot going on.
My husband would love me to be on pills to ease my black moods too.
I saw where you are in Alabama...so am I! Small world!
Hugs, Linda
I think this surgery is still evolving, when I first went for my
seminar my doctor said you COULD lose 10 pounds before surgery and
eat anything you wanted until 12 am day of surgery. Ten months
later it was 2 weeks on a semi liquid diet, liquid diet the day
before. It seems surgery is easier for both you and the surgeon if
you do the liquid diet before the surgery and it also shows your
committment. I also did not have any drains and just little pieces
of tape over my incision (8 of them) when I went home.
Pat in RI
I have just come from the Vitamin Shoppe and bought some premixed Isopure
protein drink. The bottle has 20oz and 40g of protein and only 160 calories. I
am surprised how good it is. The type I am drinking right now is the Icy
Orange. It is a little thicker than say Crystal lite, but good none the less.
It almost tastes like a orange sicle popsicle. For those of you who can't
tolerate the thick chocolate and vanilla ones at least give it a try. To me
this is way better than the others I have tried. Not bad at all.
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
Kim,
Don't leave the group, it is better to just ignore than to leave. Your
always full of encouragement for others, including me. Please rethink your
decision. Don't let one ruin it for you.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
Well good luck to you. I am sure that you were terrified and rightly so. Keep
us posted. I will be praying for you.
Hahahahaha, I just realized how I spelled your name. How country do I sound?
Sorry.
How far out are you? I have a close friend who went through the same thing.
She wished that she had never had the surgery. At about 6 or 7 weeks things
began to change for her. Now she says it is the best thing she has ever done.
Hang in there. We will do our best to cheer you up.
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
It is stressful I am sure. You are having to completely retrain yourself. We
all moan and groan, but we know this is good for us. Keep your chin up, you are
doing wonderful.
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
Thank you for your compassion. No, I'm sorry. They seem to think
that this is the best treatment for me.
No it was not a panic attack untill I woke up and had a mouthfull of
nasty tasting stuff.....
I went to the bathroom and spitt out as much as I could, and then I
discovered blood (little) in my spitt.
My next appointment is almost a month away and I am spinning in
between 4 doctors now (soon 5).
JJ
Wow, only 1 patient in 5 years. Those are pretty good odds.
I don't have any choice in the matter, my husband decided that I
need to take Wellbutrin because "I have changed so much, I am not
the woman he married).
So I'm popping the pills....
JJ
I am so sorry to hear you are having a difficult time. Was it a panic attack?
And I am sure that it freaked you out, it would me too. Can they put you on a
different med that you can tolerate better?
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
Correct me if I am wrong, but the aspirin regimen has not been shown or even
studied to work on women yet. It has only been studied in men and the last time
I talked to my doctor about it I was told that they don't know if it will affect
women the same way.
Dora in Tennessee
Lap/Open RNY 9/20/2004
Vanderbilt Hospital
Since you said your stomach hurt you right after taking the
Wellbutrin maybe it irritated it.
Kathy
I haven't had my surgery yet but it is 6 weeks away
and I have started taken the biotin pills because
since my doc put me on Adkins I have started loosing
some hair and hopefully this will help for post op.
Thanx for the tip, I just wonder what other reason there could be (
I am kinda chicken when it comes to doctors).
I am x-tremely angry and I used to be fat and happy. Now you just
look at me (not even wrong) and I'm in tears. I hate everything and
everybody that has to do with enjoying food, mainly because I still
have problems swollowing (meats) and I can't stand them protein
drinks (nasty).
Somebody hit me or chear me up - please...
JJ
Very well said Laurette...(smiles)
Babydollbbw3@... wrote:i never said that was ok nor do agree with those that
do, but that is their
business and up to their doctors to tell them. but there is a tactful way of
approaching a subject and talking to someone without degrading them. a good
portion of us have been degraded enough in our lives and it needs to stop.
sorry but of course that is my opinion. i hope i can cheer someone up when
their
down, not bring them down even more.
laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
You too Denise :)
brooke sheilds <bbwstrumpette@...
have a gr8 evening i wish you well.
Denise.
Bridget Northam <bridgetnortham@...
I think highlights really help improve the appearance of thining hair anyways.
I have lost hair like most people so I really make sure I take my vitamins, get
my protein in, etc. The other thing I did was get a shorter haircut. The
stylist said it will help with my new growth having a shorter style and its part
of "the new me". People make nice comments on my hair and when they see me for
the first time in a long while they will say there's something different about
you and I think here we go again-someone is going to say something about my
weightloss but they ask me about my hair and say how great I look. Its nice to
be noticed for something other than my weight for a change:) !
Bridget Northam
jca523@... wrote:
I just had my hair colored for the second time a few weeks ago since my March
surgery and it hasn't effected my hair loss at all. My highlights were a little
lighter than usual, but I figured that was because my body chemistry has
changed. Good luck and keep us posted on how you are.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
i never said that was ok nor do agree with those that do, but that is their
business and up to their doctors to tell them. but there is a tactful way of
approaching a subject and talking to someone without degrading them. a good
portion of us have been degraded enough in our lives and it needs to stop.
sorry but of course that is my opinion. i hope i can cheer someone up when
their
down, not bring them down even more.
laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
Awee thats gr8 Bridget awesome have a gr8 evening i wish you well.
Denise.
Bridget Northam <bridgetnortham@...
I think highlights really help improve the appearance of thining hair anyways.
I have lost hair like most people so I really make sure I take my vitamins, get
my protein in, etc. The other thing I did was get a shorter haircut. The
stylist said it will help with my new growth having a shorter style and its part
of "the new me". People make nice comments on my hair and when they see me for
the first time in a long while they will say there's something different about
you and I think here we go again-someone is going to say something about my
weightloss but they ask me about my hair and say how great I look. Its nice to
be noticed for something other than my weight for a change:) !
Bridget Northam
jca523@... wrote:
I just had my hair colored for the second time a few weeks ago since my March
surgery and it hasn't effected my hair loss at all. My highlights were a little
lighter than usual, but I figured that was because my body chemistry has
changed. Good luck and keep us posted on how you are.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
What has the Wellbutrin to do with it??? Please, I need advise...
Everyone is welcome here, of course, but I do kind of miss the "warmly,
raymond"!
Kelley
Lap RNY 5/12/04
374/297/175
Laurette thats who is paying for mine and i am not to proud to say it
Denise in Southern NJ.
Babydollbbw3@... wrote:
Yes "Brooke" I have known several to have gotten excellent care by going
through Medicare. They've been able to receive the same care as I was.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
Yes "Brooke" I have known several to have gotten excellent care by going
through Medicare. They've been able to receive the same care as I was.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
Bridget,
Congratulations on both your hair and weightloss...lol. I have stayed with a
shorter haircut for those same reasons. I'm hoping to be through this in the
next month or two. Keeping my fingers crossed.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
I think highlights really help improve the appearance of thining hair anyways.
I have lost hair like most people so I really make sure I take my vitamins, get
my protein in, etc. The other thing I did was get a shorter haircut. The
stylist said it will help with my new growth having a shorter style and its part
of "the new me". People make nice comments on my hair and when they see me for
the first time in a long while they will say there's something different about
you and I think here we go again-someone is going to say something about my
weightloss but they ask me about my hair and say how great I look. Its nice to
be noticed for something other than my weight for a change:) !
Bridget Northam
jca523@... wrote:
I just had my hair colored for the second time a few weeks ago since my March
surgery and it hasn't effected my hair loss at all. My highlights were a little
lighter than usual, but I figured that was because my body chemistry has
changed. Good luck and keep us posted on how you are.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
Judith,
Which Wellbutrin are you taking? Are you taking the time release?
Also did you swallow the pill or crush it?
Kathy
I have had my surgery 4 months ago, no drain, went in Fri 9 am, laid
after surgery in my room till Mo 3 PM and went on home. Liquids for
1 month, then soft stuff. That's when I was permitted to take pain
pills instead of the dreadfull liquids.
I can't really complain, I just moan and groan the whole day because
even with the surgery - changing an entire life within such short
time - I'm stressed out.
I am sure he is just taking his frustrations out here because he cant get them
out elsewhere (smiles).
Babydollbbw3@... wrote:i'm sure she was referring to gastric bypass
patients. my surgeons of which
there are 4 have only lost one patient in the last 5 years. not bad odds i'd
say. you may give us great information, but i'm sorry to say your "bed side
manner" leaves a little to be desired.
laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
I never before had any problem like this, and yesterday I had to
start on Welbutrin again (don't like it) and promptly I felt sick. I
have been x-tremely bloated all day, but what happened to me there
in the middle of the night freaked me out....
i'm sure she was referring to gastric bypass patients. my surgeons of which
there are 4 have only lost one patient in the last 5 years. not bad odds i'd
say. you may give us great information, but i'm sorry to say your "bed side
manner" leaves a little to be desired.
laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
Alana,
I am right in Wilmington. Would you be up for a visit if I can make up to
Crozer after your surgery? Are you having lap or open surgery? I can't
remember. I would love to come up and be there to support you.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
I just had my hair colored for the second time a few weeks ago since my March
surgery and it hasn't effected my hair loss at all. My highlights were a little
lighter than usual, but I figured that was because my body chemistry has
changed. Good luck and keep us posted on how you are.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
Yeah, whatever, I'm sure if you ask your surgeon you had an on site
drain tuve unless you surgery was done open. If it was LAP you had a
drain whether it was removed before you could visibly inspect the
site yourself or not.
No question is a stupid question and in fact the more you ask and
even if that question has been asked before and answered before over
and over it is still a good idea to ask your question. I am not an
answer man. I researched my surgery for 3 years before getting it
done and am a physician myself on the enquiry board for this surgery
in D.C. and I was here before. Rude? I didn't know this was a Dear
Abby forum. I am not here to kill ANYBODY with kindness but will
offer the truth to anybody who wants to listen. I had over 100
members ask me to come back to this list and I have. If anybody
needs qualification they should go to the National Medical Archives
and New England Journal of Medicine and research the history of
actual bypass surgery OF WHICH LAP BAND IS NOT! Laproscopic banding
of the stomach compared to RNY or the like is like comparing a
manicure to having an limb re-attached. Last time I left because of
childish attitudes and name calling. I've been hardened since then
because of the growing number of people dying from the silliness
they engage in after they have this type of surgery and the poor pre
and post op care by so called physicians. I am straight forward and
if that seems rude then perhaps you've led a too sheltered life. I
love you all, kisses n hugz, me <SEE :)
Elizabeth,
I had my surgery at St. Vincent Charity Hospital in Cleveland, Ohio. Its a
great facility. They have a great bariatric center. Here is a link to their
website. http://www.svch.net/bariatric/index.htm
Take care and good luck.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
walter are you doing ok?... Denise.
walter <littlearick@...
came out of surgery I
didnt have a drain tube, no nasel tube. no foley cath. just an i.v.
and I have not had any problems. so far. i am on full liquid diet
and i think iam doing okay. don't think i am eating enough and i
know iam not getting enough protien intake. but will talk to my doc.
on the 31 when i go in for my 4week check up.
Kathy,
It is so great to hear that Rich is doing so well. He is so lucky to have
you by his side. His surgeon and mine seem to have similar programs. I had
received three very imformative booklets prior to surgery along with attending
an
education seminiar, nutrionists seminar, pre-op testing that involved all day
with different classes. I also received the spirometer to use weeks prior to
surgery.
We have monthly support group meetings at the hospital and we have just
recently started one closer to where I live since a lot of us are more than an
hour
from the hospital in Cleveland. I believe the after care is just as
important and the pre-care.
Wishing Rich continued good health and you too Kathy. You both take care and
God bless!
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
Maryanne,
I did have 6 little kazoo type as I call them drains that were removed before
I left the hospital. I am referring to a tube that you go home with. I have
known several that have what they called a G-tube for about 3 weeks post-op.
This tube I did not have and when I originally was going to have the surgery
by another surgeon he was going to do this and I was very very uncomfortable
about this. He actually had 3 different tubes in and sent you home that way.
That was too scary for me to think about. The surgeon I ended up with thank
God doesn't do his surgeries this way.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
Where did you go for your surgery? I'm still in the process of getting approved
and I live in lower Michigan
Babydollbbw3@... wrote:Dora,
I have to tend to agree with you. My surgeon and his staff have done over
4,000 surgeries and they are also certified surgeons who teach other surgeons on
how to do the procedures both open and lap. I did not have any drains or
staples and had no complications. I had two certified gastric bypass surgeons
in
the operating room doing my surgery. They have a staff of 4 and do all
surgeries whether open or lap with 2 certified surgeons. They have also been
doing
these surgeries since the late 70's with a death rate of .005 (I think that's
it). I would have to recheck the website to be sure, but I know its very very
low. I felt very comfortable with them and would recommend them highly to
anyone living in this area. But this is all my personal opinion.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
Dora,
I have to tend to agree with you. My surgeon and his staff have done over
4,000 surgeries and they are also certified surgeons who teach other surgeons on
how to do the procedures both open and lap. I did not have any drains or
staples and had no complications. I had two certified gastric bypass surgeons
in
the operating room doing my surgery. They have a staff of 4 and do all
surgeries whether open or lap with 2 certified surgeons. They have also been
doing
these surgeries since the late 70's with a death rate of .005 (I think that's
it). I would have to recheck the website to be sure, but I know its very very
low. I felt very comfortable with them and would recommend them highly to
anyone living in this area. But this is all my personal opinion.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
I have not been in this group long, perhaps not long enought to have heard from
you before. I was actually taken by your words. You are informative but your
approach is somewhat rude if you ask me. There are ways of getting information
across without having to come out rude!!! Have you had this surgery before?
Are you in the same boat as the rest of us? I thought this group was a place to
get information, share information and ask questions to help educate us all by
others experiences? I thought no question was a stupid question?
Please tell me I took this email message wrong! If I did I'm sorry and if I
didn't shame on you.
fliphaven <monkraven@...
Let me give you all some cold hard facts:
Out of 1000 Dr's that may perform this surgery EIGHTY are actually
qualified.
Out of that 80 only 20% do the proper presurgical and post surgical
procedures ie Psych evaluations, dieticians, 2 year follow up with
all of the above etc.
That means that according to the New England Journal of Medicine
only SIXTEEN surgeons out of ONE THOUSAND are actually a safe bet to
work with for any type of GPS...and don't even get me started about
those of you who would be willing to go to some third world country
for something this serious, SHEESH!
Just because the TRUTH about this surgery and the PROPER precare and
post care may not agree with who you used or what you eat or how you
act does not make it any less TRUTH!
This type of surgery has been performed since the early 60's on an
experimental basis and then regularly as of the early 70's and there
is PLENTY of evidence to support all of what is and what is NOT
healthy habits post surgery. Any questions? Too bad, I don't give
answers, only facts!
If ANY of you have any problems post op whether you hear it is
common or not CALL YOUR DOCTOR and don't waste time. A good surgeon
will be happy you called and happy to take a moment to calm your
worries or advise you medically.
and of those of you who are wondering and the hundreds who have
written me asking me to come back here, the answer is YES, it is
me...or rather, I. Sorry for the grammar.
hello I had open rny on 8-2-04 and when I came out of surgery I
didnt have a drain tube, no nasel tube. no foley cath. just an i.v.
and I have not had any problems. so far. i am on full liquid diet
and i think iam doing okay. don't think i am eating enough and i
know iam not getting enough protien intake. but will talk to my doc.
on the 31 when i go in for my 4week check up.
Hi! That sounds so good cause I wanted other options after I have
surgery Sept 7th! Welcome back!!
Linda in AL.
Let me give you all some cold hard facts:
Out of 1000 Dr's that may perform this surgery EIGHTY are actually
qualified.
Out of that 80 only 20% do the proper presurgical and post surgical
procedures ie Psych evaluations, dieticians, 2 year follow up with
all of the above etc.
That means that according to the New England Journal of Medicine
only SIXTEEN surgeons out of ONE THOUSAND are actually a safe bet to
work with for any type of GPS...and don't even get me started about
those of you who would be willing to go to some third world country
for something this serious, SHEESH!
Just because the TRUTH about this surgery and the PROPER precare and
post care may not agree with who you used or what you eat or how you
act does not make it any less TRUTH!
This type of surgery has been performed since the early 60's on an
experimental basis and then regularly as of the early 70's and there
is PLENTY of evidence to support all of what is and what is NOT
healthy habits post surgery. Any questions? Too bad, I don't give
answers, only facts!
If ANY of you have any problems post op whether you hear it is
common or not CALL YOUR DOCTOR and don't waste time. A good surgeon
will be happy you called and happy to take a moment to calm your
worries or advise you medically.
and of those of you who are wondering and the hundreds who have
written me asking me to come back here, the answer is YES, it is
me...or rather, I. Sorry for the grammar.
During the first 6 to 8 weeks you will be feeling all kinds of pains
but unless there are multiple symptoms it is simply a part of the
healing/shrinking process. :)
I had Open RNY 8/3/04 and including the day of surgery I was in the
hospital 4 days and left with a NCJJ tube or I guess you can call it a
drain, but it is to supplement your water intake.
From reading this list and wandering around the internet I think there
are as many ways to do this procedure and after care as there are
doctors doing it.
My surgeon is one the first to do this kind of surgery and he sends
you home with an NCJJ, and his diet is totally different from the
diets I see people here being given by their doctors. He is protein
driven and you don't get vegies until after your six week check up and
even then you have to fit the protein and vegies into a 1 ounce cup.
So go to the surgeon you feel best with and follow their directions.
Maryanne
Ok, that sounds a little more doable. Good.
Julia,
That's how I've been trying to look at it too. I've been taking Biotin
faithfully everyday. The last time I had seen my hairdresser was in the
beginning
of July and I'm do to see her again. I will be checking with her to see if I
can continue to color my hair, I'm hoping so, I'm just way too young for gray
hair...lol. If I can't oh well, will just have to wait it out.
Thanks for the words of encouragement. Have a great day!!
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio
could be gas. could be what you are eating. if it continues call your doctor.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
Laurette,
I have noticed hair loss a bit in the last 6 weeks too. But if that is the
worst side effect that I encounter than that is okay with me. I am using Nioxin
shampoo and it seems to help give my hair more fullness. I have very thin hair
to begin with, but it is very curly, so that helps too. It will grow back, I
figured, hey, it's just hair. At least I'm 90 pounds lighter now.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/171/120
okay have a quick ???
i am three weeks post op and i have been having some pain in right
side and right inbtween my breast. should i be worried its not
really bad pain but i notice it. any suggestions.
Hey I was like you when I was schedule to have surgery everytime my psyc eval
stopped it this last time I began doubting myself, thinking like you maybe by me
always being reschedule for my psyc eval is trying to tell me something, but I
had my psyc on Aug 2nd and surgery on Aug 5th now as you I am depressed but I
depressed with myself knowing that I need protein and just can't bring myself to
drink the protien shakes nor the stuff I ordered, I try to eat something with
protein but I have no appitite so I am wondering maybe thats why I was always
rescheduling because I wasn't ready for it yet, but now that I have had it I
feel good, but the protein thing is bring me down. Simply why someone may ask,
well my doctor told me after the fact like going home he said my protein is
essential to getting well, keeping my hair from falling out, and other things.
So I say hang in there and your time will come don't do like me please be
patient.
psalm_91@... wrote:
Hi all
Went to have the stress test today and as usual something happens. The dr blew
my vein when he put the thalium in my arm and could not give me anymore.
So here I am waiting and waithing and waiting!!!!!! I have been on this journey
for over a year now and every time I get close something happens. Do you think
that maybe I am not suppose to have wls. I said if it was Gods will so maybe it
is not his will but mine. I am begining to doubt myself and everything I have
worked for. I am just tired of this waiting game. I wish I knew what to do. I
would like to crawl in a hole and never come out. I am tired of waiting,
waiting and life is passing me by. I don't do certain thing because of my weight
and I keep thinking some day. I quess that day will never come.
Oh well life goes on ( and still passes by) Thanks for letting me vent and now
its time to go cry some more. There has to be a lesson in this. I am just not
getting it i quess. Oh well goodnite.
Jaydee
ok this is not something the guys wanna read about I know. But I woke up this
morning in a puddle of blood. And I should have about been done with my normally
short menestrual cycle. I have lost like 70 pounds or so in 5 months. I almost
went to the hospital but talked myself out of it. Is the cause my weight loss?
Has anyone experienced this? Should I be concerned ?when I sit on the toilet
blood & clots flow bad. Sorry if to much info. Thanks for any help.
Diane
thanks Kathy, you've made me feel better about my hair loss. was beginning
to get really concerned. thanks again and have a wonderful day.
laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/238/150
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio