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Hi Angela,
I think the board has been pretty busy lately with lots of new stuff. How are
you doing, other than the carpal tunnel? I am finally in the teens . . . 219 so
I am pretty happy about that. I guess getting below 200 pounds will be the big
hurdle. Anyways, nice to have you back!
Bridget Northam
sweeetheart_sweeets <sweeetheart_sweeets@...
Hey I have been gone a week I know (possible carpal tunnel :( ) but
where is everyone?
Angela (CA)

Hey I have been gone a week I know (possible carpal tunnel :( ) but
where is everyone?
Angela (CA)

That is NOT being silly at all!! I worried about telling my mother
but after she got over the initial shock that I'm definitely going
to do this, she's been telling everybody that I'm going to have this
done. It will probably be after the 1st of the year for me, though.
Teresa

Alright guys I went to San Francisco for the appointment I was
telling y'all about.. (the one with the "bouncer") and well she told
me I would be lucky if the surgeon will do it cuz of my history of
blood clots.. and she will present to the team asking for
a "greenfield filter" So my job is to get the test results from the
doctor and lose yet another 20 pounds lol.. Anyway just wanted to
thank you all for your prayers and say I appreciate it. So wish me
luck on the next 20 pounds.. that will make 100 pounds i have lost
for this damn surgery LOL
Hugs
Angela (california)

Presh,
Your not silly hon, I'm 44 and still feel I need to please my mom. It hasn't
always been the easiest thing to do either. My having this surgery though,
even as risky as it is, once she knew and understood it better she was all for
it. Think our moms just want the best for us and our happiness. Hang in
there and wishing you an uneventful surgery and easy recovery. You will be in
my
thoughts and prayers. Take care and God bless!
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/228/160
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio

Hi All,
Okay, so my surgery (as you all know) is this Friday. Well, I had
not told my mom for fear of.....I don't know....Oh yeah, I dodn't
want the negativity because she is the type of person who always has
a million questions even though she means well and I know she loves
me. Well I did the crying thing and told her I wanted her to know
but didn't know how to tell her, etc, etc. Anyways, she took it hard
but said she wanted to be there and wanted the best for me.
Glad that is over but still feel guilty (mind you I am 37 years old
and still don't want to disappoint mommy).
Am I silly or what????
Just needed to vent, Thanks for listening,
Presh
LAP RNY (10/1/04)
385

Thanks Linda today i see my Cardio doc and get my echo and i am going to get my
chest xray and drop my upper gi results off to my surgeon. Oh they are going to
just see this women that is so determined they will have no choice but to give
me a date <smiles
you were i asked if anyone heard from you but no response.
Denise.
Linda Lou <iamllu@...
Congratulations Sweetie!!! Your doing great and I can see your
surgery coming soon. Hugs, Linda

You can do it Brian!
Brian <vrcat50@...
social worker today. I
am about 6 months away from meeting the surgeon. I need to be binge
free for 6 months.

Hi Dede,
My husband also found out my weight during the consultation and I
just knew he was going to be so shocked but turned out to be so
supportive. I have always kept my weight a secret eventhough I'd
say I gained 30 pounds or lost 10. Just the knowledge of someone
other than myself knowing killed me. So when the Surgeon mentioned
it I just felt like digging myself under a rock and quick. Turned
out my husband was more supportive knowing I was trying to change
all the negative stuff going on in my life for a more healthier
one. Sorry to ramble with that one...LOL!!! Good luck in your
journey to being healthy and may it be quick for you. I am postop 3
weeks yesterday and feel so great eventhough food taste strange to
me. Good luck!!
Hugs, Linda in AL.

Hey Brian,
Before you know it 6 months will pass and your journey will be
coming to an end with surgery. Its horrible how some insurance's
and surgeon's make other's wait when surgery is needed to help us
get on our way to being healthier. I was lucky here in Alabama with
our Insurance not requiring all that I hear other's having to go
through. All of us here will help and give you support during
your "binge free" waiting period.
Good luck!!!
Linda in AL.

Congratulations Sweetie!!! Your doing great and I can see your
surgery coming soon. Hugs, Linda

dear dede
congrats on taking the first step towards a healthy life. you are not alone. I
am 50 , 5'2" & weigh 272. I also have copd, high blood pressure, acid reflux,
degenerative joint disease in both knees, etc. if all goes well, my surgeru is
scheduled for 10/21.in fact, today i have to go for an endoscopy. it seems the
insurance wants to know just how bad my insides are after having gerd for the
last four years.
just hang in there. you will get through this with the love & support of your
husband & the people here.
sue
dedew48 <dedew48@...
Dear Members.
I took my first step today towards getting my surgery. I do not know
if I'll pass the heart and lung tests. I attended my first pre-
surgical support group. Lots of fear, lots of hope. I was the oldest
one there and one of the fattest. 56 years old. 5'4". 315 lbs. That
was hard to type. My husband saw my weight for the first time at the
consultation. I will lay my head down tonight knowing I'm at least
trying to change the direction of my life FINALLY. Good luck to all
of you that are in the process of, or have had the surgery.
dede

Dear Members.
I took my first step today towards getting my surgery. I do not know
if I'll pass the heart and lung tests. I attended my first pre-
surgical support group. Lots of fear, lots of hope. I was the oldest
one there and one of the fattest. 56 years old. 5'4". 315 lbs. That
was hard to type. My husband saw my weight for the first time at the
consultation. I will lay my head down tonight knowing I'm at least
trying to change the direction of my life FINALLY. Good luck to all
of you that are in the process of, or have had the surgery.
dede

Hey Denise,
I am back...and never too soon too!!! Dang computer bit the dust on
Thursday and it took Don till Monday to get it cleaned and back on
track. Besides that, our cable modem was fried and we had to have
the cable man bring us another one. I was having the DT's from not
getting online to chat with ya'll plus its my only link to my dear
baby in the Navy. Missed ya so much...everyone included in that one!
BIG HUGS, Linda

Hey Melisa,
Glad to see you here. Just an FYI, Kim is a blessing to all of us
around here. Glad to see your here to join us.
Hugs, Linda in AL.

Hey Dora,
Sorry I have been without a computer since last Thursday and heard
the great news of your surgery!!! Congratulations and I hope you
are still feeling great! I am going to try and play catch up each
evening if my new job will allow it...seems they want all of my time
now.
Hugs, Linda in AL.

Good luck Melissa! It will get easier, trust me.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/161/120

I had an appointment with my dietician, and social worker today. I
am about 6 months away from meeting the surgeon. I need to be binge
free for 6 months.

Sighs... had my egg test today i am 8 days out and had my 1 week follow up
today.. so this morning happy me get up makes the egg which tasted Devine at
this poitn adn the half a slice of toast that i was told ... ate the egg no
prob bob.. then the bite of toast.. chewed it into oblivion... adn almost
instantly i knew it was a mistake... OUCHIE momma... well for the next few hours
of pain i suffered.. went to the doc and he said i probably didnt get it chew
good enough... heck i didnt think i coudl chew it any better. so on to tomorrow
i try the egg alone.. if it does good on to puree adn if not... then another
week of drinking everything... the thoughts of more jello.....sighs... well wish
me luck with tomorrow. the good news i that i am down 16lbs was 242.6 befroe adn
am now 226.6 giggles with Joy!
Melisa
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance!"
Misa

Dora
ty I only have msn messenger:-(
lOVE dEBBIE

Dora
I can relate to you with this but it's only been 8 yrs for me
Love Debbie

In the support group I belong to the nurse that mediates the group
stated that it should take 2 years or more for all the skin to firm
up about the same it takes a woman after having a baby. And while
some women don't lose all the skin they do lose a lot of it. She is
my surgeon's scrub nurse and she said she has seen the full spectrum
they had a 60+ patient who lost more than half her weight and when
she went to a plastic surgeon to see about a tummy tuck she was told
it wasn't necessary and then went to the surgeons office the same day
in leather pants and they couldn't even pinch and inch on her waist.
They have seen other patients with enormous stomachs that had no
apron after surgery and patients who carried their weight all over
with no obvious apron before the surgery with an apron that needed
surgery badly.
So I guess the best answer is everyone is different, their skin is
different in elasticity and age and the only way to tell is time.
Maryanne

well, i am, was a 4DD and i have lost 9 inches in my breast. I am 30 yrs old,
and as i lose the just get smaller, not thin or real saggy.. But i already said
that after i loose everything i will either have a lift or implants put in... I
am concerned with my belly mainley because it had gotten out there.. I had
urgery on 6-23-04 and am down as of yesterday 50 lbs...... as of the 20th of
august i was down 35 inches in all.. some seems to go into place but i am real
concerned with my belly and my wings under my arms..
amy
millasandra <millasandra@...
Don't know how old you are, but at my age gravity has already been
working long and hard on the old things and I will be lucky if I
don't have to roll them up to put them in my bra - just kidding I
think.
If you are young you skin will take up the slack somewhat but you
will lose weight so fast that your skin will not shrink at the same
speed. This doesn't mean it will never firm up but not immediately.
There is nothing I know of that will make your skin ready to snap
back except for youth.
Maryanne

Cindy,
At surgery I was a 48DD and a little over 5 months out I am currently a 44D.
Not sure what preparation you can do but you will lose some...lol. Good
luck!!!!
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/228/160
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland

Don't know how old you are, but at my age gravity has already been
working long and hard on the old things and I will be lucky if I
don't have to roll them up to put them in my bra - just kidding I
think.
If you are young you skin will take up the slack somewhat but you
will lose weight so fast that your skin will not shrink at the same
speed. This doesn't mean it will never firm up but not immediately.
There is nothing I know of that will make your skin ready to snap
back except for youth.
Maryanne

I need to ask a question of the ladies who have had the wls. I am a
44DD, and I'm wondering how the weight loss affects the breasts, and
how can I start to prepare my skin NOW for the rapid weight loss??
Thanks :) Cindy

Debbie,
You asked it I had an IM. Well I have AOL and I think that I use my screen name
for my IM. My screen name on AOL is Dobiepuff. Not sure how this works.
Dora
Lap RNY 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
Nashville, TN
446-?-165
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.-
Eleanor Roosevelt

Debbie,
It has been 16 almost 17 years for me. Like I said, it gets easier but never
goes away. I still cry every time an ambulance passes me. I know that sounds
weird, but that is what I realte my last time I saw my father before the
funeral.
Dora
Lap RNY 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
Nashville, TN
446-?-165
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.-
Eleanor Roosevelt

Pat,
That is the one thing that I am most afraid of. That I will forget and swallow.
I am only 8 days out and am afraid that I would do some damage. But hey, only
today and tomorrow on the liquids and I progress to pureed!!!! Refried beans
and cheese here I come. I can already taste them. Thanks.
Dora
Lap RNY 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
Nashville, TN
446-?-165
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.-
Eleanor Roosevelt

Well my surgery is next Thursday (10/7) and my
sleepless nights has begun. I get like this when I
have anything big going on. Last night I didn't get
to bed until 2am and I woke up at 7am to come to work.
My last day at work is next Monday. I go in for my
weigh in this Thursday and I hope to god this damn
liquid diet is working because I don't want to
postpone this AGAIN.
Vee

Vee, you¹re going to do great (both with the weigh-in and next Thursday with
the surgery). We¹re all here for you, keep at it!!!
--
Carrie Sagel Burns
Lap RNY April 9, 2004 (-85 lbs.)
348/263/140 (begin/current/goal)
carrie@... - www.carrieburns.net

DEnnis and Karen,
That is great, glad to hear Karen is doing alright. She is in our
prayers and good luck. By the time she gets home I should be
receiving anesthesia (my turn). WIsh me luck, I can't believe it's
only 3 days away!!!
Presh

Julia,
Thanks, and I believe the same. Everything happens for a reason so I
don't sweat the small stuff. If for some reason I have to wait a
couple fo extra weeks, so be it. I'd rather wait and have a postivie
outcome......I have been heavy for so long that a few extra days,
even if it were months, is not gonna discourage me.
Thanks for the support,
Presh
LAP RNY 10/1/04
385

Dora... Thought this would put a smile on your face ~ Elizabeth
The Little White Dot...
A kindergarten class had a homework assignment to find out something
exciting and relate it to the class the next day.
When the time came to present what they'd found, the first little boy
the teacher called on walked up to the front of the class,
and with a piece of chalk, made a small white dot on the blackboard and
sat back down.
Puzzled, the teacher asked him what it was.
It's a period," he replied.
I can see that," said the teacher, "but what is so exciting about a
period?"
Darned if I know," he said, "but this morning my sister was missing
one. Mommy fainted, daddy had a heart attack, and the
Boy next door joined the army.
dobie161 <dobie161@...
The tears seem to have set in. Not only did I have the surgery on
Monday, but my period (sorry guys) started on Thursday. It seems
that I am nothing more than a huge ball of tears right now. I needed
to take my mind off of me for a little while and chat with my
friends. When does the weepiness stop?
I hope everyone is having a great day. More importantly I hope that
James is having a great day in the operating room. I don't know what
time he went in, but I have been thinking about him.
Dora

Hello Dora,
I am on cloud 9 today!!! I never heard back from my dr's office so we are good
to go. My nerves are not even bothering me so far. My pre op with dr Bell is
next Tuesday.Surgery is set for 12pm on wed Oct 6th. My husband did call 3 times
and i told him everything is set for surgery and he asked me when. I told him
next week and i think he was totally not expecting it. So he is very happy he is
going to be here, He barely gets to meet the surgeon next Tuesday, but better
than the day of or not at all. But all is working out, I pick up Rob tonight at
Providence airport!!!! He arrives at kids bedtime but i guess that is a good
excuse for going to bed late huh? lol,
Well not much else is going on i just have to get a few loads of laundry
cleaned. Not much else to do with the rain we are supposed to get today.
Take care all
Patty S
Have a great day!
Patty Schroeder

Thank you Dennis
Karen Essa <axvp30@...
Karen had her surgery 9:00 AM Monday 27th. The surgery went well (completed in
1:45 minutes). She has mild to severe nausia ( which is not unusual for her do
to sensitivity to Meds). She is feeling some pain, but nothing out of the
ordinary for this type of surgery. She should be back home by Friday Oct 1st.
Thank you for all your prayers and support.
Dennis

Thank you so much Melisa i am so excited i can hardly stand myself < smiles
Denise.
Melisa <mykidzmakmecraze@...
Denise,
That is so great for you! will keep fingers and toes and anything esle that can
be crossed crossed for you! i know mine was onthe slow road...then whamo it all
happened in about 4 days... Hugs for you keep us updated!
Melisa
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance!"
Misa

Scramled eggs, Egg Beaters has less calories, yogurt, cottage cheese
and tuna that I put in a food chopper and chop very fine are good
during the pureed food stage, I also found I like Cream of Aspargus
and Cream of Potato soups strained but not Cream of Chicken. Sugar
free Popciles are a nice snack and they count as water. I have
never gotten sick with the above foods and I can get sick very
easy. My grandson handed me a plastic bag and told me to get sick
so we could go to the beach this weekend. I guess I am not ready
for more solid food.
Pat in RI

Vicki,
Well luckily he is done with them and he gave all the leftovers to the dog when
he fed them. At least there is nothing in there to tempt me now. I actually
thought about chewing one and just spitting it out. I know that sounds
horrible, but it sounded good at the time. Oh, and a side note to that. They
were buffalo hot so I can only imagine what my backyard will look like in the
morning. :)
Dora
Lap RNY 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
Nashville, TN
446-?-165
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.-
Eleanor Roosevelt

Dora, Some of the women in my support group do that when they get
head hunger or a craving they can't resist. And they where months
out! And yes it does sound terrible, if I tried it I would probably
forget and swallow the food and then have to vomit. I must be
healing it has been two days since the last time I vomited. And the
thought of that should keep you on the straight and narrow! LOL
Pat in RI

Hi,
Karen had her surgery 9:00 AM Monday 27th. The surgery went well (completed in
1:45 minutes). She has mild to severe nausia ( which is not unusual for her do
to sensitivity to Meds). She is feeling some pain, but nothing out of the
ordinary for this type of surgery. She should be back home by Friday Oct 1st.
Thank you for all your prayers and support.
Dennis

Dora,
What happend if you don't eat pureed food and you just drink
shakes? purred food the thought makes my stomach turn.... wow you lost
your Dad at 17.... I lost my Mom at 17 but I was very very close to
her...
Love Debbie

Leigh,
I am sorry that you are having mixed feelings, but I can absolutely understand
that. You guys have been through so much down there. I hope that you did not
have too much damage. I will definitely put you and all of the people affected
by this horrible hurricane season in my prayers. You make the decision that is
best for you and don't worry what anyone might think. This is your time and you
do what is right for you.
Dora in TN

Dora,
It was smart to leave the room. I have to do that sometimes too. The sight
of food doesn't bother me, but man oh man, the smell can put me over the
edge sometimes. I have always fought head hunger but it does get easier.
You can do this!! We all have faith in you!
Claudia
2-10-04
404pre-op/367surg/263/160?

Hi Dora,
I know what you are going thru. But it won't be long and you will
chew again. Just think about the end result. And tell him to go
outside and eat those DAMN chicken tenders!.. haha
hang in there.. this is such a small amount of time in a lifetime of
wellness
take care
Vicki
298/261/???

Kristy,
That is the best attitude you could possibly have. Good for you!!
Dora
Kristy Sheriff <kzoso@...
Thank you soooo much for the words of encouragement
Dora. You are a sweetheart! I was upset about what
he said at first, but now I am putting it in the back
of my mind. I have more important stuff to worry
about. Take care.
Love Ya,
Kristy

Patty,
That is awesome!!! I will keep you in my prayers that you don't hear anything
from them and you are able to proceed this time. I know that you are even more
excited about getting to talk to your hubby and wow, he will be home soon! What
day is your surgery again? I want to make sure I have you on my calendar.
Looks like the ball is rolling for you again.
Dora

I had to come in another room and get on the computer because my husband is
eating. I am wanting to chew so bad today that it is not even funny. I know
that it is not hunger because I don't feel hunger. But the chicken tenders he
is eating are almost more than I can handle. I would be happy at this point
with some mashed potatoes. Just had to vent for a minute. This is hard. I
knew it would be, but man is this getting me today.
Dora in TN
Lap 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
446-?-165

Denise,
That is so great for you! will keep fingers and toes and anything esle that can
be crossed crossed for you! i know mine was onthe slow road...then whamo it all
happened in about 4 days... Hugs for you keep us updated!
Melisa
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance!"
Misa

Angie,
I take Prozac and something else three times a day and they are
capsules and have no problems. I had my surgery on August 11 and
have been taking them since I came home and my surgeon said no
problem in fact he told me to get back on my psych meds (I was
crying a lot).
Pat in RI

yes i am taking prescribed actigall for the gallbladder and it is capsule my
gasstric bypass doc gave them to me..and so is my biotin
shirley
angie2nice2u <angie2nice2u@...
Hi this is Angie I just wondering I have been told to take biotin for
my hair loss but the only form I found is in capsules. I was told not
to take capsules by my surgeons office after the surgery. Can anyone
tell me if they are taking capsules or another form? I ordered some
capsules and figured I would just take them because I need something
bad to stop this hair loss before I go bald! Just wondering and
looking for experiances others have had that use it. Thanks
Angie
353/288/175
Open RNY 05/26/04

Denise,
Calm down, you are going to give yourself a heart attack! Your
surgery will be here before you know it.
Pat in RI

Hi this is Angie I just wondering I have been told to take biotin for
my hair loss but the only form I found is in capsules. I was told not
to take capsules by my surgeons office after the surgery. Can anyone
tell me if they are taking capsules or another form? I ordered some
capsules and figured I would just take them because I need something
bad to stop this hair loss before I go bald! Just wondering and
looking for experiances others have had that use it. Thanks
Angie
353/288/175
Open RNY 05/26/04

why are we recieving 2 and 3 of every post ? this is getting aggrivating
.......what can we do to stop this ?

Presh,
I'm sorry I can help you with your medication question. I just wanted you to
know that I am hearing the anxiety and although your surgery is Friday, if
for any reason it is postponed it is happening for a reason. We may not
understand what that reason is, because of course we all want what we want, but
there
will be a reason.
I will say some prayers for you that everything goes smoothly.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/161/120

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Weekly Group Chat!!
Monday September 27, 2004
7:00 pm - 10:00 pm
This event repeats every week.
Notes:

LOL ... i was so excited i couldnt even type right ,.... i never claimed to be a
typist.
Denise <bbwstrumpette@...
both my appts this week, The
Pulmonogist just called me and said they had a cancellation for
tomorrow my appt was set for november 30th . I w\almost dove thru
the phone i am so freakin happy i am about to cry. Omg i also see
the cardo wednesday omg i am so happy omg. I am thrilled i have
goose bumps omg I think my hower pwer is so looking out for me . The
higher power heard my tears and heard my pain and heard my
desperation. I just cant believe this both appts in 1 week. I may
have a date this next month. Thanks for reading me!
Denise in NJ.

Hi Debbie,
I am from near Bellingham, Washington. About 35 miles east to be
exact. In a little town called Maple Falls. How about you?
Lori

Omg i can hardly sit still Omg i have both my appts this week, The
Pulmonogist just called me and said they had a cancellation for
tomorrow my appt was set for november 30th . I w\almost dove thru
the phone i am so freakin happy i am about to cry. Omg i also see
the cardo wednesday omg i am so happy omg. I am thrilled i have
goose bumps omg I think my hower pwer is so looking out for me . The
higher power heard my tears and heard my pain and heard my
desperation. I just cant believe this both appts in 1 week. I may
have a date this next month. Thanks for reading me!
Denise in NJ.

Hi Leigh i am putting you in my thoughts and prayers right now!
Denise.
Leigh Mason <golfinggirl01@...
Dear Friends, I am scheduled for surgery on Thurs. and right now I'm having
very mixed feelings. I live in Fl. and we are just getting our power
restored, phone, water, etc. from a hurricane. My home has lots of damage
and needless to say, I don't need the added stress. Please keep all of us
here in Fl. in your thoughts & prayers. I'm having the gastric bypass as
well as having a band removed due to erosion. Has anyone else out there had
the bypass after being banded? All info. & tips will be greatly
appreciated.

Leigh,
Good luck, I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers both for the
hurricane and your upcoming surgery. Sorry I can't help on the gastric after
band
surgery issue, but there may be someone here that can help. Take care
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/228/160
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio

Dora
i am glad you found something you can tolerate. I went to the site ( i figured i
need to start looking , with surgery next Wed.) anyway i went to look and they
actually offer free samples with no shipping cost. maybe i will have it shortly
after surgery. Thanks again
oh i also wanted to let you know i called my insurance today because they
cancelled my pre op friday due to not getting info from the insurance company.
They gave me the information i need , I called the dr's and gave them info , she
said she would call and verify if there was no problem i would not hear from
her. So far no calls, So i am good to go this time.
today i also get to talk to hubby for the 1st time since July 15th, He will let
me know what day thsi week he comes home (YEA!!!!)
Take care
Patty S
Have a great day!
Patty Schroeder

Dear Friends, I am scheduled for surgery on Thurs. and right now I'm having
very mixed feelings. I live in Fl. and we are just getting our power
restored, phone, water, etc. from a hurricane. My home has lots of damage
and needless to say, I don't need the added stress. Please keep all of us
here in Fl. in your thoughts & prayers. I'm having the gastric bypass as
well as having a band removed due to erosion. Has anyone else out there had
the bypass after being banded? All info. & tips will be greatly
appreciated.

At a support group meeting not long ago the dietician gave us some samples that
were mailed to her. It is biPro instant WHEY PROTEIN isolate. It is complete
unflavored. 80 cals, 130mg sodium, 0 carbs, 0g sugar and 20g protein. It says
you can mix it with water or whatever receipe. I mixed it with the Crystal Lite
sunrise. It made the drink a little thicker, but there was no added taste. It
tasted the same as when I drank it without anything in it. That is a miracle to
me that I have found something that does not gag me. I don't know how much it
costs, but their website is www.BiProUSA.com if you want to check it out.
I did not get mine mixed well enough and had a few lumps in it. When I
dissolved the lumps on my tongue, there was absolutely no taste. Yeah, maybe I
have my answer. I sit here dreading my protein shakes every time I know that I
have to drink one.
Just thought I would share.
Dora in TN

Best of luck Lori and welcome to the group! Keep us posted on your progress!
--
Carrie Sagel Burns
Lap RNY April 9, 2004 (-85 lbs.)
348/263/140 (begin/current/goal)
carrie@... - www.carrieburns.net

Hello there,
I have never posted here but have read just about every post! I am
still trying to get approval for surgery through Group Health.
Actually I will finally be covered by them on October 1st. I just
learned today from Dr. Bock's nurse that starting January 1st, GH
will no longer require a 6-month supervised diet in the last 3
years. This is fantastic news! Wish me luck with getting approval!
Lori

Welcome aboard Lori,
This is a great board to belong to, very helpful, and I think there is a couple
people on the board from your state so that will be good for you.
I think most of us have had trouble getting approved quickly but trust me--it's
worth the effort and the wait!
Keep us posted,
Bridget
Lori <mb_bballmom22@...
Hello there,
I have never posted here but have read just about every post! I am
still trying to get approval for surgery through Group Health.
Actually I will finally be covered by them on October 1st. I just
learned today from Dr. Bock's nurse that starting January 1st, GH
will no longer require a 6-month supervised diet in the last 3
years. This is fantastic news! Wish me luck with getting approval!
Lori

Cindy, I know what you are saying about the religious references with the post.
I just ignore them if I don't like them. I also believe in a higher power. My
husband is native american so our beliefs are different from others. That's
what makes the world go around. Have you had your surgery yet? Keep your chin
up it gets better. Cindy in MI 11/24/03 316/198/145?
wrote:
I was having a poor me day...LOL. I have noticed that most if not
all of the posts contain prayers and religious refferences. I am
not a believer in organized religion, but I DO believe there is a
higher power, and right now I am having trouble connecting on that
level.
I am mostly a believer in Native American Practices. If anyone here
is familiar with this, please feel free to contact me, as I fear I
have lost my path.
On a brighter note...I am so glad I found this group!! You are
nothing short of angels!!
Take Care!!! Cindy

Thanks Diane. My surgeon requests that I wait 2 years post-op to try to get
pregnant, which is fine with me, if I had to weight 3 years I would because I
know it would be best for a baby and for myself. I know it will happen too!
I'm definitely an optomist to say the least. Everything happens for a reason!
Thanks!
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/161/120

First off what does your looks have anything to do with the reason why you were
there? I hope you blasted his ass just my 2 cents i had my eval on friday and my
Dr was way cool of course ive known him for awhile i passed with flying colors.
Of course i am always flying in his eyes...lol.
Denise.
Kristy Sheriff <kzoso@...
Hello All,
First of all I would like to send out my thoughts and
prayers to everyone having surgery this week.
I went for my Psych. evaluation on Saturday, and let
me tell you what a jerk the doctor was. Every word
that came out of my mouth, he would turn around and
make me feel as though I was CRAZY!!!!! These were
his exact words..... Well Kristy, let me just tell
you that when you lose 150 pounds you are going to be
a knock out. He went on to say that He doesn't think
that I will be able to handle all of the attention
that I will get.
First of all, I am married and very very very happy.
I told him that my husband is a knock out and it just
amazes me everyday that he loves me for who I am and
not what I look like. I don't know, maybe he didn't
mean it the way I took it. Would any of you been
confused or upset by what he said? I may just need
help processing it all.
Kristy

I agree, that was not at all professional and I would have felt so
uncomfortable if that were me. Also, had I told my husband that
would have been another story. What a jerk!!!! SOunds like he was
trying to take advantage of you (maybe thought you had low self-
esteem or something, you know)...........were you referred to him by
your surgeon?
Let's hope you don;t have to see him again and if you do, take your
husband with you!!!
Presh

Hello All,
First of all I would like to send out my thoughts and
prayers to everyone having surgery this week.
I went for my Psych. evaluation on Saturday, and let
me tell you what a jerk the doctor was. Every word
that came out of my mouth, he would turn around and
make me feel as though I was CRAZY!!!!! These were
his exact words..... Well Kristy, let me just tell
you that when you lose 150 pounds you are going to be
a knock out. He went on to say that He doesn't think
that I will be able to handle all of the attention
that I will get.
First of all, I am married and very very very happy.
I told him that my husband is a knock out and it just
amazes me everyday that he loves me for who I am and
not what I look like. I don't know, maybe he didn't
mean it the way I took it. Would any of you been
confused or upset by what he said? I may just need
help processing it all.
Kristy

Karen,
Of course you are in our prayers. Good luck and see you o n the
other side as it will be my turn on Friday and by the time you get
home and post I will be on my way to join you.
God bless and speedy recovery!!
Presh

Hi All,
Okay, so now my doctor put me on Lopressor and wants me to take it
before surgery. I am going to call my surgeon to find out if I
should continue this all week since surgery is on Friday or what!!!!
Has anybody else been on blood pressure medication before
surgery???? Just trying to get som info so I don't screw up and have
to postpone my date on Friday....... I am still nervous but you guys
help me be strong everyday.
Thanks for being there,
Presh
Lap RNY on 10/1/04
385

Karen,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your surgeon this day. Praying for
an uneventful surgery and a quick and easy recovery. Take care and God bless.
Let us know when you get home. See you on the losing side!!!!!
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/228/160
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio

Hi Everyone,
I am leaving for the hospital in just about a half hour! My surgery will be at
9:00 a.m. so for all those inclined to do so please say a few extra prayers for
me & my surgeon... I am really nervous at the moment!
Thank you to all who have already wished me well I do appreciate it and looking
forward to joining those of you who are already on the losing side.
Most sincerely,
Karen E
My husband will update later tonight.

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Ok i havent been ALL alone My GREAT friend Kim was a blessing and took me to the
hospital adn stayed there with me and has been at my beckon call any thing i
need she has been there to get me! So i appolgize for that mis typing... BUt you
knwo you dont have to drown in that pool told you you could come over here to
higher ground! winks!
BUt what i meant was that at night or during the tiem syou ahve to be with you
family i have felt alone.... as that lady doens take care of me she helps with
the kdis which is good but you knwo what i mean! hugs and junk!
Melisa
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance!"
Misa

LOL PIcking on ya silly....I told you what I would do to her...but I will be
good
Kim
Melisa <mykidzmakmecraze@...
Ok i havent been ALL alone My GREAT friend Kim was a blessing and took me to the
hospital adn stayed there with me and has been at my beckon call any thing i
need she has been there to get me! So i appolgize for that mis typing... BUt you
knwo you dont have to drown in that pool told you you could come over here to
higher ground! winks!
BUt what i meant was that at night or during the tiem syou ahve to be with you
family i have felt alone.... as that lady doens take care of me she helps with
the kdis which is good but you knwo what i mean! hugs and junk!
Melisa
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance!"
Misa

Smacks you, you have been alone what am I dog meat..Fine I will drown alone with
my rain filled pond with all this stupid rain....Ya know I love ya....
Kim
Melisa <mykidzmakmecraze@...
Dora,
Youand i seem to be cut of the same cloth I had mysurgery monday and came home
wednesday adn started my period on thursday it has been a big pain i was tempted
ot ask my doc to just take it out whiel he was in there! although i am not
having the weepiness i do feel for you love. My husband is still deployed so
went threw this wiht HIS mothers help... so been alone basically! hugs ya and
vent away baby... hope you weepiness ends soon!
Melisa
9-20-04
242.6/229/
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance!"
Misa

Denise,
I was just sitting here wondering the same thing. Was watching the news
about the hurricanes hitting Florida and the east coast again. Hope everyone
down
there is ok. They sure do need a break.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/228/160
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio

Hi has anyone heard from Linda i was reading the post. And i havent
seen anything posted from her or Kim just wondering whats up.
Denise in NJ. ps: If anyone is wondering i changed my profile to
thenewdenise i hope i didnt confuse anyone. still same email tho.

Dora,
Youand i seem to be cut of the same cloth I had mysurgery monday and came home
wednesday adn started my period on thursday it has been a big pain i was tempted
ot ask my doc to just take it out whiel he was in there! although i am not
having the weepiness i do feel for you love. My husband is still deployed so
went threw this wiht HIS mothers help... so been alone basically! hugs ya and
vent away baby... hope you weepiness ends soon!
Melisa
9-20-04
242.6/229/
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance!"
Misa

Rhonda,
Glad you are doing well. Keep us updated.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/161/120

I was having a poor me day...LOL. I have noticed that most if not
all of the posts contain prayers and religious refferences. I am
not a believer in organized religion, but I DO believe there is a
higher power, and right now I am having trouble connecting on that
level.
I am mostly a believer in Native American Practices. If anyone here
is familiar with this, please feel free to contact me, as I fear I
have lost my path.
On a brighter note...I am so glad I found this group!! You are
nothing short of angels!!
Take Care!!! Cindy

Hi Cindy!
No matter if you have WLS or not, there is always hope. It is all in
perspective. Usually to even be considered you have to be at least 100 pounds
over
weight and/or over 40% body fat. Now, that's where it begins. Most people who
have this surgery have medical problems, i.e. diabetes, sleep apnea, high
blood pressure, heart disease, etc. I, however, did not have any of that, but
my
family history is filled with all of it, especially diabetes, high blood
pressure and heart disease. I am only 31 and my husband and I have been married
almost 6 years. I was unable to get pregnant, so my doctors also felt that was
due to my weight since your fat cells effect your hormone levels. So really,
although I was definitely 100 pounds over weight and over 40% body fat, this
was more a pro-active approach to a healthy life for me. I want to have
children and I also want to live a long healthy life. This is a tool, it is not
a
miracle cure. You HAVE to change your eating habits via this tool of WLS or
it will do you no good. I am very happy to have had this surgery and feel very
lucky that it went smoothly not only during surgery and after, but during the
approval process also.
Good luck and keep us updated.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/161/120

Dear Diane,
Let me first start out by saying I am so sorry for your loss. Losing your
sister must be so difficult for you. I agree with you about the psych eval.
Although I am not doing it now, I am trained and have experience in the
psychology world. I am actually working with my surgeon and a team of doctors
to get
more to the psych aspect of this surgery. I believe that the psych eval is
great, but there should be something more ahead of surgery and there should be
plenty of follow up post-surgery. I also agree that your hormones are effected
by weight loss, as they are effected by weight gain. I, for example, could
not get pregnant due to my fat cells effecting my hormone levels, etc. So,
this surgery, I hope will assist me in that area.
I also think that a lot of people are just curious about scarring, etc.
because they don't really know what it is going to be like. I don't believe
that a
lot of us would give up the opportunity to have the surgery because of scars.
But thanks for putting things into perspective. You are exactly right. I
much rather have the scars and not the weight.
Congratulations on your success with WLS and my thoughts and prayers are with
you.
Julia in Delaware
Lap RNY 3/10/04
261/161/120

Sounds like you are doing well Rhonda! I am happy for you.
Not so great that you had the allergic reaction but glad they went
through with the surgery anyway.
As for the water...I would not stress over it too much at this
point. Just make sure you are always with water by your side and
drinking it when you can. We become dehydrated easily post-op and as
long as you are getting in as much as you possibly can and
increasing your consumption steadily there shouldn't be a problem. I
know that I was not able to do the 64 oz for the first couple of
months but I did steadily increase as I went along and my
nutritionist was happy with this.
Wishing you a continued speedy recovery!
Colleen
lap-rny 11/03/03
315/194

You can get free samples at www.Vitalady.com . I believe they cost 1.99 each
but there better then buying the big container and end up not liking it. They
have a huge selection of protein drinks and also sugar free syrups to add to
the protein drinks.
-Jonathan
4 weeks post op - 50lbs

i want to try different samples of protein drink,prefferably the
isopure.....now are these samples free? where do you go to get them?

What a sweetheart you are. I am scared, but you're the 6th post
I've answered. Someone told they lost their father to this surgery
(maybe not the best time to tell me--during a panic attack), but
then she told me that she went and had the same thing done 3 months
later. I feel pretty good about what everyone is telling me. I
know I need to have this done. I just don't know how to be the new
me, that I am supposed to be. But I guess that's too far to think
about right now. Baby steps!

I am not sure. My notes say today the 25th, but I could be wrong.
We will just have to cover him with prayer today and tomorrow. :)
The more the better.
Dora

You people here are really a peace of truth an honor. I've been
associated with this support group less than 24-hours and already
feel like more Christians have wrapped their arms (all the way)
around me, and loved me, and supported me, even when I can't do it
myself. I am still full of anxiety preparing for surgery, but for
now, today, I am okay. I feel like a big baby to be honest.
But He really is a wonderful God we serve, in all that we do, and in
all of the people He brings across our paths. I am totally a born-
again Christian, but in times like this your mortality just smacks
you right in the gut and makes you second-guess everything. Even
giving the urine samples (almost).
God's love to you all in your roads to wellness.

Cindy,
We do all have those days. There is nothing wrong with that. You
stick to your guns and if you decide you are going to do something to
better your life then you do it. We are all here for you. We have
all been or are where you are now. God will take this walk with
you. Trust Him.
Dora

Matthew,
I will admit that it never seemed real to me until I got that
approval. I was ready to fight, and got it the second time around
without a fight. I cried. I realized that I was really going to do
this. But soon after I was extatic because I knew I was going to get
the surgery. You will run through every emotion that you can think
of before the surgery. I am now realizing that you will run through
all of them after too. But if you know that this is what you want to
do and you have made up your mind you will be ok.
Monday when they were putting my IV in and I was saying goodbye to my
family I was at peace. I knew that I had made the right decision
live or die. I knew the consequences. But I also knew that God is
with me and I will not go until it is His timing. And if His timing
coincides with my surgery then it was going to be that day anyway. I
really felt peace at that time.
I hope this has helped however so slight.
Dora

Vicki,
I hate to see you go. I started on this site when I was about as pre-
op as you are. I learned a lot before I went into surgery. I
actually knew more about the dietary side of this surgery than the
dietician intern did who came to brief me after surgery. Come by
once in awhile and just read if nothing more than to educate yourself
before ou take the step.
Good luck to you and i hope we hear from you again soon.
Dora
Lap 9-20-04
Vanderbilt
446-?-165
Nashville, TN

Matt,
You said what did we do when we realized there was no more talk. I wanted this
for over a year did my research when i got approved was so excited and soooo
scared. I Knew that i coudl die on the table or die from horrible complicatiosn
but i put faith in myself and faith in my heavenly father. adn thought i can do
this for me and for my family to give them back the mother and wife they
deserve. AS they were giving my my iv i was thinking ok you can stil lturn
back.. but then a calmness came ove rme and i thought no this is right you need
to do this. adn everythign will be ok.. i am only5 days post op adn had the
open done adn have no regrets..except the grits i ate! ARCK...wotn do that
again.. but anyhow... You can do this and we are all here to help youand hold
yourhand threw your journey to the thinner you! hugs
Melisa
"Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well
dance!"
Misa

I have added you guys to my prayer list. I hate it that you are
being hit again and it looks like it is going to be another bad one.
Trust in God, He will get you guys through this. I will be praying
for you.
Dora

Denise,
It is me in the flesh. I just know how important it is to be
remembered. And any of us who pray we need to do so. Prayer is very
powerful and if that is all we can do to protect him then I am up for
it.
Dora

The tears seem to have set in. Not only did I have the surgery on
Monday, but my period (sorry guys) started on Thursday. It seems
that I am nothing more than a huge ball of tears right now. I needed
to take my mind off of me for a little while and chat with my
friends. When does the weepiness stop?
I hope everyone is having a great day. More importantly I hope that
James is having a great day in the operating room. I don't know what
time he went in, but I have been thinking about him.
Dora

Hi Everyone,
Had my surgery on Thursday and am doing pretty good. It seems I
always have the "rare" complication and this experience was no
different. Of all the things, I had an allergic reaction to the
nausea patch which was prescribed for me to put on the night before
surgery. When I woke up Thursday morning, I was like a drunken
sailor. I took three steps left, three steps right, and literally
couldn't stand up straight. I had to hold on to the sides to take
my shower. By the time we got to the hospital I had the worst
headache I'd ever had in my lfe. The medication made my pupils
dilate abnormally so I have been wearing sunglasses ever since (even
in the house). The headache has eased a little and the effects
should wear off in a couple of more days.
When the doctor came to see me before I left the hospital, he and
his nurse brought me a "godie bag." It had a bottle of flavored
water, a card that says I have had the surgery and am entitled
to "kids menu," tea bags, sugar free candies, and a sterling silver
baby spoon! I thought that was a really nice touch! The baby spoon
is a good idea - it helps you to eat more slowly.
I have the normal soreness in my tummy but got off the pain
meds after one dose when I got home - hate the way they make me
feel. The pain is really not bad at all. Today I feel much better
and have even done a load of laundry! I'm walking a lot around the
house and trying to decide what I want for my next meal! ha ah
Juice, broth, poscicle, or jello? Decisions, decisions!
I'm sure I'm not even close to getting in 64 ounces of water
because if you wait 30 minutes before and after you six meals, that
just doesn't leave enough time to get it in.
Thanks to everyone for remembering me in their thoughts and
prayers. I'll keep you updated o my recovery.
Rhonda

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Cleveland Clinic (Weston, FL) meeting
Monday September 27, 2004
5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
This event repeats on the last Monday of every month.
Event Location: conference room
Notes:
email wlslori@... for more info/directions

Matthew,
Welcome to the group, you've joined a great group of people here. My
personal advice to you is to put this in the Lord's hands. That's what I did
and
believe me He will be with you every step of the way. After having met my
surgeon and some of his staff I had a calmness that I knew I was in good hands
and
everything was going to be fine. I hope you can find that calmness too. Hope
your journey into better health will be an easy one and uneventful. Please
keep your chin up and keep us posted. We're all here for you.
Laurette
4/23/04 open rny
309/290/230/160
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio

I hate to admit this, because it seems there's nothing else I've
ever wanted more (other than the family God's blessed me with), but
I am really scared that I just my get approved for this. I've been
fighting for it for so long, I might just have my ducks together
enough to get someone to say okay. For me, that's monumental. I've
never given a second thought to my weight until about two years ago,
when my sister mentioned it. She mentioned out of love not anything
else. Then when my folks mentioned it, I knew something was really
wrong. They've never hounded me about my weight much less surgery
that could ultimately be deadly.
I am at the crossroads now where it's no longer talk. I could do
this proceedure and die, or I could do it and have everything I've
ever wanted, life! What did you folks do, when you truly realized,
this is no longer talk. It's going to happen. I am either going to
make it, and make a success of it, or I am going to die literally.
Those are pretty powerful statements that I may not fully grasp,
even typing the words. When am I going to grasp it, when they're
putting the IV in me, and I run away scared? I've got so many
emotions going on right now. I almost feel like I am just torn from
here to there. Can anyone lay down some advice for me?

Matthew - I think that we all have those bad downer days.
Especially while waiting to get all the approvals and testing before
surgery.
You know why you are persuing this surgery and what it will mean
for you when it is done. I think that keeping the goal in mind -
being healthier and more active for your wife and child, being able
to really live and enjoy life with your family for a long time to
come.
Just keep reading these support groups. And posting too. I really
haven't posted much, but I sure read a lot. It helped to keep my
moral up.
During my pysch evaluation the dr asked me about what I thought if I
had complications. I really wasn't sure as I just kept thinking
that I was going to do this and be ok. I told her I would just have
to figure it out as I went along and was hoping for the best of no
complications. I know others that have had complications that have
been resolved and others that have ongoing problems, but most all
will say they would do this again in a heartbeat.
It seems that most people are able to stop most medications or at
least decrease their dosages soon after surgery. Hopefully you will
be the same and soon you will be smaller and able to enjoy sex
again.
Talk to your wife, I'm sure you have already. But tell her how you
are feeling. Ask her would she rather that you died because of your
weight and didn't do anything about it or would she rather that you
tried to help yourself, but didn't make it through surgery or had
problems afterwards.
I wish you all the best and a most successful surgery and outcome.
Keep reading and asking questions.
Caryn

That is so sweet Denise. I wish you well in your journey to
wellness. I've heard there's lots of great doctor's in in your
area, especially NY. I don't mean to latch on to you. It's just,
it sure would be nice to have someone to chat with who's in the same
boat (okay a small yacht) :) LOL
I've gotten the proof from the YMCA that I've been there for 7
months, 3 doctors notes some with reports, more co-morbidities than
you can shake a stick at, my sleep apnea doctor's reports, so I
think I am on the right track.
I guess now I am really scared that I might just actually be
approved. Though there's nothing more that I ever wanted, other
than my son.
M

Hey guys, just wanted to post to let u all know i wont be around
much, i am so pre-op (surgery feb-march 05) that i guess i dont fit
in....the post are hard to follow and i feel out of it...(ie.not much
replies to my post) i dont take it personal and realize its too
early, maybe when i have more to talk about rather than just ask
questions.
By no means has ANYONE affended me or do i feel any ill winds, you
are ALL great people and a wonderful Group!
look forward to coming back when i fit~ my email is

Hi and welcome to the group and you are not a downer. I can totally
relate to how you feel we have all felt the way you feel one time or
another. In our lives as a obese person but you rae taking the right
steps and it is normal to be scared because it is a big change. And
you are at just at much at risk being obese as getting the surgery.
I just got my psych eval upper gi and i am waiting a few other
appts. And then i will get my date so i am right there with you i am
scared also but, i never wanted anything so much in my life i am
tired of being married to my house . Because i cant walk from the
car to the house with out being out of breath. Now that really sux i
am 40 yrs old and my life is flying by me i just want to participate
in my own life. I am starting to realize as i get older it goes by
quicker so i need to do something now and not only that i had a mom
die and she was very heavy when she got ill with all things related
to obesity. So that is my goal to become healty to see my kids grow
to get old and enjoy my life until someone says ok Denise i think
you better start acting your age now and i will say but
why?????.....LOL.
Denise ...In...NJ.

Chris and Sue,
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you battle yet another storm.
Take care and keep safe. Look forward to hearing from you both soon. God
bless!
Laurette
309/290/230/160
St. Vincent Charity
Cleveland, Ohio

WELL JUST WANTED TO LEAVE A MESSAGE ABOUT US, WERE EVACUATING AGAIN FROM OUR
TRAILER FROM THE STORM WHEN WE GET BACK IF I HAVE A HOUSE AND A COMPUTER ILL
EMAIL YOU ALL AGAIN, SO KEEP US IN YOUR PRAYERS, PLEASE KEEP US IN YOUR PRAYERS
AND EVERYONE ELES IN FLORIDA. GEZZ WE GOT A BAD FEW MONTHS SO FAR. WELL HOPE
TO EMAIL AGAIN SOON, YOUR FRIEND AND NEIGHBOR
CHRIS AND SUE CARROLL
MICCO FLORIDA (IN THE MIDDLE OF MELBOURNE AND VERO BEACH)
CHRISTOPHER CARROLL

Hi Matthew,
I am having my surgery this Monday and can tell you I am scared, excited,
nervous, happy.... Considering this surgery brings out all the emotions. I have
two 3 year olds and a loving husband and the worst thought of all would be
leaving them behind. On the other hand, it is like you said, you are not really
living now and that is how I feel. My daughter even says "Mommy you sit here
o.k." when we go outside to play. I don't want to be on the sidelines anymore.
The good news is that going to a good surgeon, being in a good hospital and not
having too many health problems makes the risks regarding this surgery much like
any other surgery. I don't have a lot of major health issues, no high blood
pressure, no diabetes, *YET*. I know if I don't have this surgery those will be
in my future.
I know that the real work starts after the surgery, and I am ready. I am making
a commitment to myself, my health, and my family that I will do what it takes to
get fit and healthy and start participating in life.
As far as your xanax goes, ask if you can up the dose or if you have to start
taking twice a day... this is a time of extremely high stress and is probably a
phase. I am no doctor, but I myself have had xanax in my purse off and on over
the years mostly knowing it is there if I need it is enough, but this last month
has been more on than off and I too had the dosage increased for the time being.
I wish you all the best,
Karen E
I am petrified--my dr. put me on Xanax but it's not helping. It
seems as though the insurance company, Aetna (PPO) is making this an
uphill battle the entire way. This is to save my life, it's not
something cosmetic, or a quick fix because Al Roker and Carnie
Wilson got the ball rolling on this.
This past Saturday, I did something I never thought I would do, I
went to the second annual "walk from obesity" fund raiser. My 4-yr
old boy was cheering me on.
I had to go to my cardiologist today; it was a 6-month check-up.
I'd put on 50lbs and was the highest weight ever, 400lbs. I am
absolutely sickened I weigh that much; but I am very thankful that
my heart is in good shape. He said for being 6'2" and 400lbs, I've
got the best ticker he's seen. He said he was really surprised I
don't have any issues with my heart. My lipids and cholesterol were
okay too, not great but okay for someone my size. My blood pressure
is even ok, not great, but okay.
I also had my psych eval yesterday, so that's out of the way too.
I am scared about the surgery itself. What if I don't reawaken,
what if something goes wrong and I now have serious, life-long
complications--I've got sleep apna too and am very difficult to wake-
up after surgery, so there's lots to think about.
I am so heavy, my wife and I cannot have sex anymore because I hurt
her. Then the medication I am on for depression and anxiety keeps
me limp anyway :( I cannot wait for this surgery. It seems like a
life-saver. I feel guilty because I am having the surgery because
the consequences; they could be great in survival and have a new
life, bad because of death. But I don't feel as though I am living,
I feel as I am existing. I pray to God every night that I can live
one more day to see my wife and kids. Even my big "emergency"
clothes are tight on me.
Anyone have some advice for the issues I am venting about. Sorry to
be a downer, I just feel really bad today.

I just got out of the hospital this past Tuesaday and the diet I am on for 2
weeks is different than protein shakes: cream soups, sf pudding or jello,
applesauce, plain yogurt, and cream of wheat/rice. I have never yet felt
hungry.
Anna
Kelly <kelly_48176@...
Just has Lap RNY last week Wednesday and I am having a horrible
time. It is not that I am in pain but I am SOOOOO hungry. I am on
the protein shake diet and am going crazy. I really would like
something more substantial to eat. I just feel like I made a
mistake... I know in my mind that I didn't but I am an emotional mess
(which I know can happen) and need some encouragement.
Good luck to all,
Kelly

I am currently on Lopressor myself. I think it's a wonderful
medication. The only downside to it was that I had a headache for
about the first two weeks. Sometimes a migrane. I've been on it
now for 4 years. It's the 7 medication my doctor has tried on me
for BP, and the only one that's seemed to work.
I don't know about stop taking it before surgery, but I doubt it.
When's your surgery?
I'll pray for ya

I am petrified--my dr. put me on Xanax but it's not helping. It
seems as though the insurance company, Aetna (PPO) is making this an
uphill battle the entire way. This is to save my life, it's not
something cosmetic, or a quick fix because Al Roker and Carnie
Wilson got the ball rolling on this.
This past Saturday, I did something I never thought I would do, I
went to the second annual "walk from obesity" fund raiser. My 4-yr
old boy was cheering me on.
I had to go to my cardiologist today; it was a 6-month check-up.
I'd put on 50lbs and was the highest weight ever, 400lbs. I am
absolutely sickened I weigh that much; but I am very thankful that
my heart is in good shape. He said for being 6'2" and 400lbs, I've
got the best ticker he's seen. He said he was really surprised I
don't have any issues with my heart. My lipids and cholesterol were
okay too, not great but okay for someone my size. My blood pressure
is even ok, not great, but okay.
I also had my psych eval yesterday, so that's out of the way too.
I am scared about the surgery itself. What if I don't reawaken,
what if something goes wrong and I now have serious, life-long
complications--I've got sleep apna too and am very difficult to wake-
up after surgery, so there's lots to think about.
I am so heavy, my wife and I cannot have sex anymore because I hurt
her. Then the medication I am on for depression and anxiety keeps
me limp anyway :( I cannot wait for this surgery. It seems like a
life-saver. I feel guilty because I am having the surgery because
the consequences; they could be great in survival and have a new
life, bad because of death. But I don't feel as though I am living,
I feel as I am existing. I pray to God every night that I can live
one more day to see my wife and kids. Even my big "emergency"
clothes are tight on me.
Anyone have some advice for the issues I am venting about. Sorry to
be a downer, I just feel really bad today.

Tomorrow by my records is James's surgery. Let's be sure to keep him
in our prayers.
And with that said I am taking my tired sore booty to bed. Talk to
you guys sometime tomorrow.
Dora

Karen,
You will do great. Mine was moved up to 7:30 from 12:30 and I was
happy. Try not to be too nervous. And as soon as they put something
in your IV to make you relax you won't remember anything else.
We will be here when you get back.
Dora

And try going potty all the time with a bunch of staple in. Not a
fun job. I am being inventive on how to wash.
I have been told that the staples are nothing. I have never had them
before either but was told not to worry. I know some places will
give you something to relax, and a friend of mine said that her
doctors office rubbed Vix Vaporub under her nose to distract her. I
have never heard of that before but she said that it worked.
You will do fine. I will be truthful with you after they come out.
Dora

Hi all,
my doctor called me today to put me on Lopressor (for high blood
pressure) and said to start it now before surgery. Has anyone else
taken this and if so did you have to stop before surgery? I can't
talk to my surgeon before Monday so I wanted to check with you all
to see if you had any info.
Thanks,
Presh

Presh,
Unfortunately I don't have any advice on that. My mom is actually
the one that approaced me a couple of years ago telling me about the
surgery and that she knew a couple of people who had it done. So she
was very much in support.
But I would at least let her know. There are complications and
people do die having this surgery. You would not want something like
that to happen. Now granted, I am sure that you will pull through
just as well as I did, but don't take any chances with the ones you
love.
Dora

Are you drinking enough water. Very often stomach growling and hunger
pains are actually dehydration. My husband had hunger pains after his
surgery in July and he made it a point to increase his fluids and
weathered through it. I still haven't felt hunger pains but everyone
will be different.
Maryanne